Do you set yourself goals and then feel overwhelmed by how crazy big they are?

So you make your goals more “achievable”?

 

I see this so often with clients. When you feel really confident and excited about your vision, you set yourself a juicy, stretching goal that will challenge you. And then… you have a wobble and the goal feels like a silly dream. You scrap it. You push it aside. You choose a more “realistic” goal or give up on the goal process altogether.

And you stop aiming to reach the big goal you set yourself. You limit yourself.

Enter… the mean girl…

We all have that loud voice in our minds. I call her my inner “mean girl”, but you might know it as your ego voice or inner critic. She’s loud. She’s mean.

She’ll always be there, as she’s designed to keep you protected and safe. She’s directly connected to your subconscious beliefs that are programmed with what’s right and wrong. When you step away from what’s “right”… she get’s noisy to protect you. 

BUT… it’s not all doom and gloom for your goals. You have freewill and you can choose to work on your subconscious beliefs. Work directly on the programming so that your mean girl is protecting you from a place that ALIGNS with what you actually want to believe. Not the out-dated programming from your childhood (or before!).

Imagine if…

 Just for a second, imagine if your self-talk was cheering you on, aligned with your big vision and expecting you to win!

Crazy? …ever heard of Kanye?

When you consistently feed your mind with positivity, self-love, compassion, limitlessness… that’s what you start to believe. That’s what becomes your foundation.

You can re-programme your mind through the messages, emotions and words that you consume!

The Power of Affirmations

This is where affirmations can play an important role in your mindset rituals!

I adore Earl Nightingale’s metaphor which I will share with you today.

Think of your subconscious mind as fertile soil.

Think of your thoughts as seeds which you sow.

Whatever you plant will grow with care and attention.  

Although you’re not fully in control of your subconscious thought patterns – they happen automatically and habitually. You are in control of your conscious thoughts. You can choose to sow new thought seeds consistently in every moment.

Affirmations are those seeds. 

An affirmation is a simple statement that something exists or is true. And the beauty in affirmations is that these statements can be used intentionally to create and shape a belief system within your mindset. Through repetition and consistency, you will be able to create new beliefs that 100% align with what you desire to believe.

You can read more about The Power of Affirmations here.

Just watch your beliefs grow and flourish when you consciously and intentionally pay attention and nurture them!

If you want to align your mindset with your goals and become a Goal Attractor… start thinking thoughts that serve you consistently.

 

What is a Goal Attractor?

I truly believe that you’re already a Goal Attractor, you just don’t know it or own it yet!

Embodying your Goal Attractor is CONSCIOUSLY setting goals and aligning your vibrational frequency to attract what you want with ease. It’s stepping into manifestation and trusting that you are a goal magnet, it’s natural for you! 

And it’s not too crazy and unachievable!

You are a born Goal Attractor. You are always manifesting (consciously or unconsciously!) and the Universal Laws tell us that your thoughts create your reality. You can be a magnet to what you want!

Whatever you choose to focus on and where your energy is directed, you will attract more into your life. The Law of Attraction and Law of Vibration have your back, whether you are aware of it or not!

If you want to dive deeper on my 5-steps to Manifestation or learn more about the Universal Laws, read my previous blogs. 

Goal Attractor Affirmations

If you’re ready to take control of your thoughts and start feeding your mind to support your goals… get ready to start affirming like a Goal Attractor!

 

1 – Believe in yourself & your goal

When you are manifesting your goals, it’s important that your mindset believes in YOU and believes in YOUR GOAL.

I teach clients to manifest from a mindset of feeling worthy, grateful for your current reality and already successful. You are incredible right now. But you are born to grow and expand – your goals simply enrich your life experience and provide a focus to expand towards.

• I am a Goal Attractor. I’m a goal magnet!
• I am worthy of everything I desire, simply for being me
• I am the perfect match for what I want, it will inevitably manifest
• It’s safe for me to dream big
• My goals enrich my life and everyone else’s life around me
• I am not my thoughts. I am so much more than my thoughts!
• I focus my mind on feeling success, abundance and love
• I am enough. This goal simply enriches my life experience.
• I am safe to feel gratitude for life now and desire more
• I am successful right now. My success expands every single day

2 – Co-create your goal

You’re not alone in bringing your goal to your reality! You are co-creating your desires with the Universe, whether you realise it or not.

Remind yourself that when you take action, stay focused and align energetically with your desire… the manifestation process is happening!

 

• I am focused and committed to my goals
• I am calm, intentional and focused every day
• I choose to be energetically aligned with my goal
• I take intentional, aligned and inspired action towards my goal every day
• I prioritise my mindset and energy knowing that I’m aligning with my desire
• Every day I take purposeful and meaningful action towards my goals
• I am co-creating my desires with the Universe – we are the dream team!
• I choose to align my mind, energy and actions in every moment with my desires
• When I set a clear intention and choose alignment, my goal manifests
• It’s easy and effortless for me to attract what I want

3 – Trust that your goal will manifest

Release the control of WHEN and HOW this goal will manifest. Your chosen ‘deadline’ and logical plans are a small piece of the puzzle.

Feed your mind with trusting thoughts so that you can surrender, let go and know that your goal will manifest in divine timing. It’s inevitable, it’s coming. Be patient and continue to be aligned.

 

• My goals will manifest in divine timing for my highest good
• I trust the Universe has my back and brings me everything I need
• I choose to surrender and trust that my desires are on their way
• My goal success is inevitable, I am patient
• I choose to let go of any thoughts and emotions that create doubt. I trust, completely.
• I trust the journey towards my goals is for my highest good
• I trust any challenges that come will lead me to growth and wisdom
• I am so happy and grateful for my desires, thank you
• Everything happens perfectly in my life, I trust the unfolding process
• I am the perfect person to receive my goal. I’m open and ready to receive

BONUS – Choose fun & joy

Manifesting what you want is natural. Don’t make it too serious or complicated. It’s who you are – connect and have fun with it. Choose joy and lightness. Do what feels good for you!

• I love manifesting what I want, it’s so natural and easy
• When I have fun and focus on what makes me happy, I manifest with ease
• I am enjoying the journey towards my desires – I love my life now

Feed your mind with GOODNESS

Remember your subconscious mind believes what you tell it – so feed it with goodness!

Be consistent and create a 5 minute daily practice to either journal or affirm them to yourself. Make it a part of your lifestyle, and the consistent goodness will start re-programming your subconscious mind to be in alignment with your desires!

And if you’re ready for more…

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And if you’re ready to dive in deeper manifesting with these laws, download my free resource: Goal Attractor: 5 x 5 Minute Manifestation Rituals to Align with your Goals.